We gaped at him wondering which planet he
came from. I told my friend I was going to talk to him and get his contact. I
wasnt letting this opportunity slip away. She just continued staring and
blushing.
Well, I took courage and stepped forward.
"Hi"
"Hello" ,he replied.
"My name is Monisola, this is Esther
my friend".
"My name is Chima"
I stretched forth my hand, "Its nice
meeting you".
He shook my hand, staring not at me but at
my blushing friend. "Pleasure is mine"
I knew that instant where his interest
lies. All the same I still got his contact. Of course I gave it to my
friend. They are both good together now.
The point behind my story? Always know when
to let go when your feelings are not reciprocated. Don't hold on, thinking it
will get better. No! It will only get you heartbroken and hurt. You deserve
better.
Furthermore, never frustrate someone's
feelings. You don't love him/her? Then set them free. Don't dip a knife in their
heart and continue to twist it. A firm but polite refusal will do. Move on and
allow them the same luxury.
Let me know what you think.
Humbly submitted
Monisola Tairu
#MonnieWrites
hmmmm interesting, this act must be an act that you have worked on and mastered, humanly speaking, its difficult for one to easily let go of what ones heart so much desire, just for the fun of giving it away to a friend. but then like you rightly said, it is the best thing to do , once you sense that the feeling is not reciprocal. at the same time, i will say there is no harm in pressing further at least to be totally convinced that , it will not be reciprocal. Nice write up really. keep it up.
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